Who can take part in the run 26.2 miles challenge?

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Anyone! You can take on the challenge however it suits you best, whether you run alone or with friends. Complete your Run 26.2 Miles in February your way and help to save lives. If you’re under 18, you must take part with a parent or guardian.

Can I meet my recipient?

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If your recipient lives in a country that allows direct contact, it might be possible to exchange contact details with them, or even meet one day. However, there are some important things to be aware of: 

  • Not all countries allow direct contact, and policies can change at any time.  
  • The initial request for direct contact can only be made by your recipient (or their family if they are under 18), and this can only happen at least 2 years after the last transplant and provided they are in good health. 
  • Direct contacts are a rare occurrence, with only a very small number of completed direct contact exchanges each year.
    • You may have seen stories on our social media pages, or on the news about heart-warming donor-patient meetings which may make it seem as though this is a common occurrence, but in reality, it is actually quite rare. These stories are a fantastic way to share the positive outcomes that can happen thanks to the generosity of donors like you, and the amazing work of transplant teams and coordinators.
    • Even if you never hear from or meet your recipient, you have done an incredible thing by donating your stem cells or bone marrow and giving someone a second chance of life.

If we do receive a request for direct contact from your recipient, we’ll be in touch with you to help you decide what you’d like to do and explain the next steps.   

If you would like any more information, please contact the Donor Follow Up team on 020 7424 6568 or at donor@anthonynolan.org

Can I contact my recipient?

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It may be possible for you to write to your recipient anonymously after the transplant, but not all countries allow donor-recipient communication. During your follow-up phone call 2-3 days after donation, the Donor Follow Up team will tell you if anonymous communication may be possible.  

In order to maintain anonymity, we must abide by the following rules for any donor- recipient communication: 

  • Personal details such your name, address, specific details about your profession and any family details must be excluded.
  • No photos or gifts may be exchanged.
  • Donor-recipient communications must not be shared publicly.

Please bear in mind that even if your recipient is allowed to write to you, they might decide not to. We do understand that this could be upsetting but we cannot ask the recipient to write back.  

If you would like to send a letter for your recipient, please email your message to donor@anthonynolan.org  and remember to include a note with your name and donor ID so we know who to send your message on to.  

If you are unsure if your recipient is in a country that allows anonymous communication, or if you would like more information then please contact the Donor Follow Up team on 020 7424 6568 or at donor@anthonynolan.org

What support is available for donors when their recipient doesn't survive?

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Choosing to become a donor is an incredibly generous and hopeful act, but it can also carry emotional weight. If your recipient has sadly passed away, you may find yourself experiencing a range of emotions — including, at times, a misplaced sense of responsibility. It’s important to remember that your decision gave them something truly meaningful: the chance for more time.

Even if the transplant was not ultimately successful, your gift may have provided precious moments — time to be with loved ones, to say goodbye, or to experience life a little longer.

Please know your contribution made a difference.

If you are finding it difficult to cope with this loss, we encourage you to contact the Donor Follow Up team for support. Additional resources and helpful contacts are also available here: Bereavement and stem cell transplant.

Will I know if my recipient doesn’t survive/ What if my recipient doesn’t survive?

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It is very hard to say if the person you have donated to will survive, and this is due to lots of factors such as why they needed the transplant.  

If we are informed that your recipient has sadly died after the transplant, and if you asked for updates, we will contact you to let you know.

Transplant is just the beginning of a long journey for your recipient, but no matter what happens, you’ll have given them more precious time with their friends and family, and importantly, hope. And that’s something truly incredible.