Choosing to become a donor is an incredibly generous and hopeful act, but it can also carry emotional weight. If your recipient has sadly passed away, you may find yourself experiencing a range of emotions — including, at times, a misplaced sense of responsibility. It’s important to remember that your decision gave them something truly meaningful: the chance for more time.

Even if the transplant was not ultimately successful, your gift may have provided precious moments — time to be with loved ones, to say goodbye, or to experience life a little longer.

Please know your contribution made a difference.

If you are finding it difficult to cope with this loss, we encourage you to contact the Donor Follow Up team for support. Additional resources and helpful contacts are also available here: Bereavement and stem cell transplant.